Shoes: Should they be worn in the house?
Posted on August 25th, 2009 by Shomore under Foot Health and Fitness, Shoe History Corner, Shoe Product ReviewsI was raised in a household where everyone took off their shoes upon entering the home. As a kid, sometimes I resented the practice. Primarily, it was often a hassle plus most of my friends didn’t have this requirement in their homes. Nowadays though, I see the value removing shoes. The reasons are quite similiar to why they did it in the old days.
1) Shoes are removed to keep dirt out -- no one wants muddy shoe prints on their freshly cleaned floors, especially if you have guests sitting on the floor (which lasted about 6 months after we bought out condo and had no furniture).
2) Giving feet proper air circulation. Okay, sometimes I’m lazy. I confess that I might skip wearing socks if I know that I’m only going out on a quick errand. But I have sweaty feet and taking off my shoes when I get home ensures I dry out my feet and don’t get athlete’s foot. In more humid climates like Taiwan or Japan, I can totally see where this would be an issue.
3) Removing shoes are relaxing. The act of casting off my shoes when I arrive home is my way of saying that I’ve entered my comfortable, stress-free sanctuary, free of the constraints of the outside world.
I realize that not everyone feels this way, especially after watching the Sex and the City Season 6, Episode 9 entitled ‘A Woman’s Right to Shoes’ :
or maybe someone has holes in their socks they wish to hide. Even though it is my home, I know I feel a twinge of guilt and awkwardness when I force my guests to remove their shoes.
So here’s what I do. I always keep a few spare guest sandals handy. When my guests arrive, I give them the option to go barefoot or ask if they are interested in wearing indoor slippers instead. I know it isn’t much, but I want my floors clean and keeping outdoor shoes on is not an option. I’ve found that it helps when the slippers are cute or uber comfy. For example, the lovely folks at Dearfoams sent me these two slippers.
The top Dearfoams pair were too small for me but they were a hit with my girlfriend -- she loved the cute flower and the bright colors. My girlfriend happens to fall into the ‘take off the shoes at home’ category so she was an easy sell though. The bottom Dearfoams sole was so comfy, that I ended up wearing them myself. I’m not sure how fellow pregnant women can walk barefoot, but I need a little cushioning and support with all the extra weight I’m carrying. This pillowtop, memory sandal was simply a godsend for my aching feet.
Anyways, I digress. To give my guests slipper options, I purchased 2 additional Dearfoams on my own -- a light blue thong Dearfoam sandal and a fuzzy Dearfoam slipon -- plus a pair of manly slippers from Brookstones. Here’s a fun picture that I took of the Dearfoams in the shape of a flower. Some of my guests have said they like the sandals and would be purchasing a pair to wear around their house. I guess they like the memory foam on the Dearfoams as much as I do!
But what about you? Would you make your guests take off their shoes?
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August 26th, 2009 at 12:03 am
I wear shoes in the house. If I had new carpet I might feel differently though. I have a friend who insists people take off their shoes, so when I go to a party at his house I wear my gumboots, and then put my shoes on when I go in. No point in getting dressed up then wearing slippers. Spoils the look.
August 26th, 2009 at 4:12 am
Yes I agree with you. At home we remove our shoes after coming back. This definitely helps to keep the dust out. Usually guests conform.
August 26th, 2009 at 4:39 am
We’re definitely a family that takes off their shoes. An Asian thing, I guess. I think it’s that Asian families really don’t throw many parties, and even if they do, they’re family-oriented and more of a home-y affair. We rarely have parties where we get all dolled up and outfits really matter. If I have friends over, we just lounge around in our socks…very casual and relaxing. The very thought of trickling mud and dirt in from the outside world freaks me out!!
August 26th, 2009 at 7:54 am
Our family always takes their shoes off in their own home as well as others. However, if another person’s house consists of them wearing shoes, then we keep them on. Usually that means they have a dirty floor though!
August 26th, 2009 at 9:40 am
I recently adopted a puppy and my hardwoord floors are harder to keep clean, so I started taking my shoes off for my pups health and also it is helping it keep tidier. However, I work from home and don’t want to wear slippers. Any suggesstions, on shoes for the home? I was thinking of buying some havianas for the home and also some slip on uggs. Or maybe i should design my own
August 26th, 2009 at 10:48 am
My rule is no shoes in the house and I don’t care what their opinion is. My house, my rules – you don’t like it, don’t come in!
August 26th, 2009 at 12:20 pm
I usually take my shoes off when I am home because I never word shoes as a kid and have kept that habit. BUT if I go to someone’s house and they ask me to remove my shoes, it doesn’t sit well with me. I consider it the height of bad manners – it doesn’t put a guest at ease.
In fact, it kind of makes me not want to return to that person’s house. (Maybe that is their way of getting rid of me.)
August 26th, 2009 at 4:37 pm
My husband and I have a no shoes in the house rule as well. We always go barefoot or wear slippers. Even so, I usually let my guest get away with keeping their shoes on because I feel mean asking them to take them off.
August 26th, 2009 at 5:13 pm
In my home I allow guests to wear shoes. I don’t have any carpets, except for in my basement, so I suppose I’ve never really thought twice about taking off my shoes.
However, because of the climate I live in (Canada–cold) I do ask people to take off their heavy boots during the winter– the sand and salt from the roads ruins hardwood floors. Most people wouldn’t want to wear said boots for longer than needed anyways!
August 26th, 2009 at 7:47 pm
I think everyone should take off their shoes at a guest house, you never know what could be on the bottom and you do not want to be responsible for a stain. I agree with the taking off shoes as a stress reliever. I love the feeling of sitting down and taking your shoes off after a long day, it just completes it! Slippers are always a good option especially if there are wooden floors which can get cold fast!
August 26th, 2009 at 9:47 pm
I DO find it rude when people ask me to remove their shoes in their home. My feet get very cold when I take off my shoes (even when I leave my socks on), and I am not about to haul my closed-toed slippers over to someone’s house. No one has ever provided me with slippers, and sharing shoes is unsanitary due to the possibility of passing on foot fungi and I think even more unsanitary then trying to keep some dirt out of the house. It’s not like I have been hopping about in mud puddles anyway. I think it should be left to the discretion of the guest whether or not they want to remove their shoes, perhaps they are hiding a giant corn and don’t want to whole world to see it.
August 26th, 2009 at 11:57 pm
Personally, I find it rather rude. I would rather some dirt on my carpets than other people’s foot sweat.
Perhaps a vaccum cleaner would be a sound investment? Or a door mat, even.
Shared slippers? That just seems rather revolting and unsanitary.
August 27th, 2009 at 9:25 am
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August 28th, 2009 at 4:54 am
Thanks for the fantastic post. I agree that wearing shoes in them house is a dirty habit.
August 28th, 2009 at 12:40 pm
Interesting! My family removes shoes upon entering the house for comfort reasons. I see no need to keep shoes on longer than necessary. But I’d never dream of asking my guests to remove their shoes. As a hostess, I view my job as making my guests feel comfortable, and I know that removal of shoes would be uncomfortable for many. I always feel awkward walking into a home and not knowing whether or not shoes are allowed.
We do keep extra slippers in the guestroom (love these Turkish Slippers, so cozy: http://www.shop.com/The+Turkish+Slippers+-138198632-p+.xhtml#pop_pcd_tabs0) . I never thought of keeping them by the door in case company prefers slippers to socks or shoes. I might just find a little home for them in the front entry way!
August 28th, 2009 at 2:34 pm
i do make my guests take off their shoes. it is ture, i keep my house really clean and i like to walk bare foot around so i don’t want outside dirt inside my clean space. yuck!
September 3rd, 2009 at 5:33 pm
Perfect Timing! My husband and I just bought a house and I was wondering how to solve the awkward problem of people not wanting to take off their shoes. Slippers are the perfect idea! Thank You. (^_^)
September 8th, 2009 at 10:54 am
Thanks for bringing up this subject.
Shoes should not be worn in the house!
I have an whole blog about this: Shoes Off at the Door, Please You might like to take a look.
September 9th, 2009 at 9:20 am
We also dont wear shoes in the house. We change into slippers in the entrance hall as do most of our regular visitors. I cant imagine wearing shoes in the house. The Turkish slippers in the above link look so comfy, who could possibly mind wearing them?
September 24th, 2009 at 8:10 pm
Personally, I don’t really care if you wear shoes or not in my house. However, being Asian, parties or any sort of event where we invite people over would mean that shoes are left outside. I wear my shoes when I get into the house to take them off and store them away. The thing about wearing shoes into the house is that, not only is there a chance that they’re dirty, they are also bad for your health. Shoes bring in all sort of bacteria.
September 29th, 2009 at 9:30 am
I don’t accept guests wearing shoes in my brand new flat. Maybe it will change in a few years, but as long as everything is new and clean, it’s the most important rule at home.
So I wear some lovely Giesswein slippers.
February 3rd, 2010 at 1:46 pm
Of course I don’t wear shoes in the house, not in my own house and not when I am visiting friends or family. It’s rude to wear shoes when you are inside, because that means you don’t think they have a clean enough house for you to “risk” take off the shoes. And if yor don’t take them off, you ruin the floor and the shoes brings in loads of dust and bacteria. All the dust and bacteria can give you or your guests problems like asthma and such (specially if you live in a really dirty city..).
Another reason for not wearing shoes in the house is that the feet need air to be healthy and to keep good blood circulation.
If we were ment to wear shoes all day, indoor and outdoor, we would have been born with shoes on..
April 11th, 2010 at 6:19 pm
My house shoes are not allowed inside. We take off our shoes on the front porch or in the garage depending on which way we enter the house. We don’t have slippers we just walk around in socks or barefeet. When guests come over most them take off their shoes without me saying anything. My kids friends will usually just see my kids removing their shoes and take off theirs as well. My friends all have shoes off homes so they just add their shoes to the pile and come on in.
Whenever I go to someone elses house I look for the pile of shoes or if the hosttest is in socks. If either of these occur I just take my shoes off. If I am unsure I will ask “shoes off in your house?” If they say it doesn’t matter I still take my shoes off.